Trying to hard to impress, or simply thinking that because someone is friendly they must be interested in is not necessarily so.
You need to wait for the right moment to express your interest in them.
You may be itching to tell someone you like them, but you need to take a more subtle approach.
Unless they express a strong interest in you or give the right body language, you need to back off and wait.
Let’s look at the first date.
The first date
It’s gone well, so your aim here is simply to arrange a second date.
Don’t get involved in saying how attractive you think they are if you have had only polite feedback simply say:
“You enjoyed their company and want to see them again”
That’s it.
Women don’t particularly like men that are too eager, give the impression of wanting their bodies before their minds, or finally, are too intense or full on, after only meeting once.
Take a step back.
You want to see them again, it’s as simple as that and if they want o as well, thats the first hurdle dealt with.
Body language that shows your date likes you.
There are definite signs (even on a first date) that your date likes you and all you need to do is look at their body language.
Tell tale signs are:
Someone who adopts a relaxed manner and leans forwards towards you and holds eye contact for long periods.
If someone is not sure or not attracted to you, they will normally retain their distance and take up defensive postures such as folding their arms.
The body language below shows serious interest, so look out for it.
Eye to eye contact is made.
Then, the eyes go down to the mouth and follow the rest of your body down to the floor and move back up again to the eyes.
It takes a while to do this and you will probably notice it.
Women, who are relaxed or fancy you, will also tend to show you their wrists and have a tendency to play with their hair.
Another positive sign is if they touch you on the arm when talking.
Watch the Knees & Legs
When sitting down watch for one knee bent to allow the foot to be tucked under the opposite thigh.
The knee point will be aimed directly at you.
This is a very relaxed position and shows your date is comfortable with you and wants your full attention.
Many women will use a more obvious move.
This one should be termed the “Sharon Stone Pose” and was used in the film “Basic Instinct” If you don’t remember it here it is.
With one leg pressed against the other tightly, she will combine this with the placing of one hand on her thigh and move it drawing your gaze down.
This position of the hand on the thigh is a serious I am interested in you.
The Perfect set up!
Watch for the following:
A woman crosses her legs and moves her shoe towards you so you have to look at it.
She may go further and let her shoe on the top leg hang off her foot and starts playing with it.
This means she wants a response from you now!
Don’t rush your date many will not show an interest on the first date so don’t be to keen if they agree to a second date your on the right course.
When you see obvious body language encouraging you then you can make your move to.
