This was written by relationship blogger & Consultant , Joro Olumofin..
2️⃣ Body Goals / Physique: A wife has a lot of responsibilities.Managing
a home, raising children, running her business, catering for her
husbands needs / chores. She doesn't have time or luxury to have body
goals or even Join a gym, hence she begins to look like a GrandMa or an
Aunty. Most wives assume the role of mothers 1000% forgetting about
their looks and their husbands needs. On the other hand, Sidechicks
sleep in the gym, slay for breakfast and dinner, have flat a belly and
look exactly like a mans fantasy.
3️⃣ Some wives are not Prayer warriors, their prayers are face validity
alone, they don't have a "War Room Mentality" : A lot of Sidechicks have
Spiritual & marine spirit backing & are on a mission to destroy
homes & take everything for themselves. They use charms & all
sorts to seduce husbands. Some wives have already lost the battle before
it began because they don't have a deep rooted relationship with God
neither can they fast for 40 days or more for their family's sake. They
want Pastors to fight their battles for them instead of intending to the
issue personally.
4️⃣Mental Masturbation : Make a man feel like a king even if he's broke
or hasn't paid the children's school fees. Most husbands avoid their
homes because it reminds them of a reality they want to avoid. ( their
failures, responsibilities, duties, obligations etc) Wives are very good
at putting their husbands in reality check by nagging and making him
feel less of a man. E.g. You haven't paid Jnrs School fees, we haven't
paid the mechanic, the rent is due, generator is bad, when are you
getting a new job? , make sure you enroll for your masters. All these
questions kill a mans Ego. When he is with his Mistress she has no
business with these questions and she makes him feel like King Kong.
5️⃣ Men are like babies. They want everything new and shiny : Sidechicks
are in tune with what's going on in town, the new songs, the new
bars/clubs , new attires men are wearing, new hair cut, new $ex
positions, new slangs. When a man hangs out with his mistress he feels
likes a young boy again, he feels like a university boy, she tells him
to grow his beard, she tells him " who you epp" , she calls him " end
time bae" , " Recession boy" things he has never heard before. But when
he gets home his wife says " Good Morning Akin, how are you?" She makes
dinner reservations for him at the same restaurant he has been to 1000
times. He starts looking at his own home as basic.
7️⃣Twerking : As silly and ordinary as the word "twerking" may be.
Twerking is a reason for a lot of friction in relationships. Based on
direct observation and hundreds of mails received on My Blog. Some
Husbands want their wives to twerk, some wives are either horrible at
twerking or they think it's beneath them. Hence there is a conflict.
When a man finds a lady who can twerk for him daily he's dissatisfied
with his wife and home. He starts seeing his wife as a bore.
8️⃣ Slay: As i mentioned earlier in point number 1, wives are very busy
with a lot of responsibility. Hardly would you see a wife spend 200k on a
pair of louboutins when she's got school fees to pay, salary and rent.
Sidechicks are real life Beyoncé and Kim k. They wear the best and look
the best. Because of this , husband are more inclined to takes their
Mistresses out on dates more than their wives. A husband once told me,
my wife can not even slay to kill a rabbit. "She will be wearing Aldo
& Micheal kors upandan "
Summary:
Nothing can stop a man from cheating or having a million Mistresses. A
wife can slay for breakfast, lunch and dinner and her husband still
sleeps around. This article only highlights the reasons why some
husbands act the way they do, in Psychology personality can not be
changed once fully formed but only managed or curtailed based current
variables. Be the best you can be as a wife and leave the rest to God.
The areas where you think you're lacking, meet up.
#JoroMofin
