with them? Are you worried that you might make one of those mistakes and lose the man that you love? Do you want to know how to avoid making these common mistakes? It’s hard enough to get a man to fall in love with you, but once you have him you also stand the chance of losing him. Read the following article to learn about 3 common things that women do that can cause a man to fall out of love with them.
1) Trying too hard
You shouldn’t be doing all of the work. Sometimes, women go overboard for their men. They take them out to dinner, buy them gifts, show up at their jobs with picnic lunches, etc. You don’t need to do this. As a matter of fact, he needs to be doing that for you.
It is true that it sometimes take a man a little while to notice that a woman is interested in him. However, men also get scared off easily. They can get turned off when women try too hard.
2) Putting pressure on him
When a guy is trying to decide whether or not he wants to be in a committed relationship, or even propose, he is emotionally sensitive. He is probably over-thinking it and even doing little pros and cons in his head. That is definitely not the time to put any pressure on him. In fact, the best thing that you can do is back off.
Men like to think that they come up with the ideas. If you want him to commit, then you have to let him think that he came up with it, even if you’re the one that lead him in that direction. They don’t like to have their hands forced.
3) Being too co-dependent
Men like to feel needed, but they don’t want to feel like you are so co-dependent on them that you can’t do anything without their approval. In fact, if you’re with a guy that wants you to be co-dependent then it might be wise to run the other way because that’s not very healthy.
You should certainly have interests of your own and continue enjoying your life your own way. Keep up with hobbies, work, and friends. Let him be part of your life, but don’t let him be your life. You are partners, after all, and not the same person.
By avoiding these three common mistakes, your relationship will continue to be strong and meaningful. After all, you worked hard to make him fall in love with you; you don’t want him to fall out of love
