S*xual urge for v!rgins is strong. What makes it stronger is the novelty, newness, the mystery and the hear says about s*x..
Mast*rbation is fondling your gen!tals consistently to achieve 0rgasm. Ladies may stroke their cl!toris while guys rub, massage or caress their p*nis. I decided to give explicit explanation because some ask me what mast*rbation is. Some ladies especially non-virgins use candles, banana, small bottles, sticks, dildos or whatever represents a p*nis and do solo s*x (having s*x by yourself).
From teenage upward, you will have a strong desire for s*x. It's a sure sign you are normal and capable of having and enjoying s*x in marriage. In your 20s it will be stronger and intense! You may wake up feeling h0rny for no single reason in the world or go hot on spotting a curvy lady! You may start noticing shapes and curves and you have to shake your head several times to keep the image off. You may get worked up on watching a romantic movie and discharge something. You check up and discover you are wet. All these are normal, you haven't committed any sin.
So what then do you do when you get hot and h0rny? Have $ex? I know you know my answer and some singles will never be caught dead sleeping around, so what do they do? They masturbate! They give themselves release and pleasure through solo $ex while claiming virginity at the same time. Mast*rbation is completely wrong and not the way out. Let me explain:
1. Mast*rbation is not done in isolation. It is done with the image of someone in mind. It can be a lover, an EX, a celebrity, a married person, a crush, someone you like but incapable of having. You imagine having s*x with them while mast*rbating. That is MENTAL FORNICATION
2. For ladies, while inserting all manner of objects, you may mistakenly deflower yourself and also introduce infection into your genitals and womb. It will be very difficult to convince your future partner that you never had $ex with man except objects during your solo $ex.
3. You kill your ability to enjoy $ex in future. Millions of women don't enjoy $ex in marriage which leads to $exual frustration, adultery, lesbianism and feminism. If you are used to getting 0rgasm by yourself, you won't be able to get it from your husband. If you are used to objects in your private part, you won't have feelings for your husband's p*nis. You will always think of something harder, bigger, longer, larger and completely unrealistic! Women who complain their husbands' p*nis are too small didn't marry as v!rgins. They must have been promiscuous as singles.
4. You will not have a good s*x life as a man. You will experience pre-mature ejaculat!on and your wife won't enjoy you leading to acute $exual frustration in marriage. You need self control to fully enjoy $ex and give your wife maximum $exual pleasure. A woman enjoys $ex when the man can go on for at least 7 minutes before ejaculat!ng. Because you are used to instant release from mast*rbation, you may not be able to go more than a minute before exploding leaving your wife completely unsatisfied and frustrated. She may close up, become frigid and stop having $ex altogether which may lead to you having an affair, she having an affair or both of you having an affair. Self control before marriage helps you enjoy $ex to the maximum.
You are able to delay ejaculat!on, go on for a long time and have excellent 0rgasm while giving your wife pleasure too. That is why total virg!nity pays!
5. If you do not suffer premature ejaculat!on, you may have serious problem with delayed/ retarded ejaculat!on. A situation where you get erect!on for several hours without ejaculat!on or 0rgasm. What is the benefit of $ex without 0rgasm? Rough mast*rbation with your hands kills your ability to feel/enjoy $ex with your wife. It is hell for a woman to be under a man who thrusts in for hours unable to ejac*late. How will the woman get pregnant? It's the reason some women are seemingly "barren" and can't talk to anybody out of embarrassment. Thrusting hard for so long leaves the woman sore, frustrated and hating $ex altogether. You have so much to lose $exually when you masturbate. Abstaining from this degrading act helps you feel relaxed, confident, have normal $exual intercourse and enjoy the pleasures that comes with $ex IN MARRIAGE!
6. You start having $ex in the dream with a known or unknown person (demonic entities other wise known as spiritual spouse).
7. You feel drained, dirty, empty, useless and powerless after each act.
8. You start getting unsatisfied and wants the real thing. You fantasize more about $ex and start longing for the real act.
9. You get a warped view of the opposite $ex. You see them as $exual objects and start having $ex with anything in skirt or trousers -you become promiscuous.
10. You get damaged, hurt and broken.
11. You are at risk of hell fire!
These and more are the consequences of mast*rbation. They damage you and shatter you to pieces! What then should you do with your $exual urge? How do you handle the constant hunger for $ex?
1. Avoid all dirty pictures, porn0graphy videos, pictures and hot, romantic movies -they are powerful $exual triggers!
2. Avoid friends who say dirty,lewd and obscene things. Stop all $exy banters with friends and say only things that are pure, holy, needful and helpful.
3. Get busy with your life, education and career, there is more to life than $ex.
4. Transmute your $exual energy: Channel your $exual energy into something great. If you don't burn that energy, you will have $ex.
5. Study the word a lot especially Psalm 119. When you are filled with the word, you have no space for the devil and his demons in your heart.
6. Pray and speak in tongues always. It sanctifies you.
7. Make friends with godly people.
8. Avoid porn0graphy and romantic movies.
9. Get busy in kingdom service.
10. Give your life to Jesus if you are not born again. He will surely help you out.
Mast*rbation is wrong, bad, demonic, destructive and sinful. Avoid it and end it with speed if you are deeply involved in it. Jesus can help you. Call on him! God bless you.
BE GUIDE & BE WISE.
